The start of a new year often brings resolutions—plans to get in better shape, put more boundaries in place regarding technology, or set ambitious personal and professional goals. These are worthwhile endeavors, but this year, I encourage you to think about something deeper: What season of life are you in?
Recently, I came across a blog by James Clear who talked about the idea of life’s seasons, both personally and professionally. One example he gave was from his own life. In a previous season, most of his time was spent writing his book, consulting, and doing other work-related things. Now he’s in a new season with a focus on family and much less time committed to work.
Clear notes that many people operate the way they always have for 18 months or more before realizing a season has changed. That struck a chord with me.
In my own life, Susan and I spent the better part of 20 years focused on raising our three children—juggling school, athletic and social activities, and family events. It was a long, busy and fulfilling season. Then, about a year and a half ago, we became empty nesters. Suddenly, we found ourselves with more time and space than we’ve had in decades! At first, I was apprehensive about this new phase of life. But it’s been a true blessing—a season to focus on us, our marriage, and what lies ahead.
Did I fully recognize this new season the minute our last child left for college? Nope. It took some time. But now I fully do see this season for the new one it is, and I’ve adjusted life accordingly.
So, as you step into this new year, I challenge you to pause and reflect on how you are living life right now. Recognize what season are you in. Are you a parent with young children immersed in their activities and milestones? Are you in a growth phase at work, pouring all your energy into your career? Or perhaps you’re entering a new chapter like retirement or sending kids off to college.
Recognizing your season is important because it helps you set priorities and align your energy with what truly matters. It’s easy to stay on autopilot, doing what you’ve always done, even when life has shifted. But growth often comes when we adapt to the season we’re in, letting go of outdated habits and embracing new opportunities.
As we begin 2025, take some time to think about where you are, how you are navigating that, and where you want to go next. What changes or adjustments could help you thrive in this season? What will set you up for success in the next one? What can you let go of to make space for what matters most?
Here’s to a year of clarity, purpose, and living fully in whatever season you’re in.
My next blog will explore this idea of life seasons a bit more with some cautionary examples of what happens when you don’t adjust to a new season.
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